Today, most people have at least one social media account. Social media is a useful tool for connecting with friends, following the news and much more. With that being said, social media has its drawbacks, particularly when you are going through a divorce.
What is the safest way to use social media during divorce? Outlined below are a few things to keep in mind.
Do you really need to post at all?
The safest way to use social media during divorce is not to post. If you are someone who uses social media mainly for browsing, then this may not be much of a problem. However, if you routinely post for personal or business reasons, then this will be more tricky. Think about how important posting is to your life. Is it really something you need to do during the divorce?
The reason that posting can be a negative is that your posts can be taken out of context. Social media posts are increasingly being presented in court as evidence, and this includes in divorce cases.
Have you adjusted your privacy settings?
All social media platforms allow you to adjust your privacy settings. This means that you can be selective about who sees your posts. You can limit your posts to friends only. However, it is always safest to assume that anyone can see what you post. And remember, your online friends may relay what you post back to your spouse.
Social media can be a useful tool, but posts can be presented as evidence in court. You should refrain from posting anything about your case. If you have children who are on social media, you may also want to monitor their online activity as it could be used in custody proceedings.
If you’re concerned about how social media could affect your divorce, it may be wise to seek legal guidance.
At The Law Firm of Poppe & Associates, PLLC, our focus is relentless advocacy for our clients. If you or someone you know is considering divorce, reach out to schedule a consultation at 646-665-3903 or by contacting us online.
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Mia Poppe, Esq.
Managing Partner