Even people going through a hard time in their marriages may find it shocking when a process server delivers them a divorce petition. Realizing that a spouse has filed for divorce can feel like a betrayal. The emotions that follow that experience can result in people making mistakes, such as failing to file a formal response with the family courts.
Some people have a hard time accepting the idea that divorce is on the horizon. They may put off responding because they hope that the divorce might not actually occur. While some people do dismiss divorce petitions, avoiding the reality of the situation out of the hope that divorce may not occur is not typically the best decision.
People need to be proactive about protecting themselves after receiving legal services from a spouse. They often need support so that they can assert and protect themselves during the significant transition they are about to undergo.
There is limited time to respond
Provided that in-person service occurred, the spouse responding to the divorce petition may have only 20 days to file a response with the courts. Failing to act gives the spouse who filed control over the terms. They can petition the courts to move forward with the process without the input of the responding spouse, which may result in highly unfavorable child custody and property division terms.
Individuals served with divorce paperwork need to learn about the basics of the divorce process including how the courts divide property. Getting support when reviewing and responding to divorce paperwork is of the utmost importance. Lawyers can teach people about their rights and the process so that they don’t end up losing their right to counter a spouse’s proposal or accepting imbalanced, unfavorable terms.
At The Law Firm of Poppe & Associates, PLLC, our focus is relentless advocacy for our clients. If you or someone you know is considering divorce, reach out to schedule a consultation at 646-665-3903 or by contacting us online.
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Mia Poppe, Esq.
Managing Partner